Why we chose to send our child to preschool in Mexico

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Marching in the Kinder parade for Independence Day.

Before you get all up in arms, our choice in formal education was made with the idea of finding what was best for our son. We live in rural Mexico, and the educational system is a bit different here. Not better, just different. Our ultimate goal has been and continues to be adequate life-learning for our son, and that has included sending him to school.

In Mexico, kinder (preschool) starts at 2, yes 2. The little tots typically attend school from 9 am to 1:30 pm Monday thru Friday, with no nap time. Children must be the minimum age for a grade the December of the year they begin school. This means that children born on January 1 are more than 12 months older than their classmates born December 31. Talk about classroom diversity!

We arrived in Mexico when my son was 4 years old, which was just as well because starting school at 2 was not in my plans. I kept him at home with me until August, so he actually was 5 when he began school. We opted for a private, bilingual kinder, mostly because I was able to get a position there and teach my son half a day, along with 20 other 4 and 5-year-old Mexican children. Overall, it was a good experience for him (though not so much for me). (Learning and Teaching Year 1) It allowed him to improved his Mexican Spanish in both formal and informal situations and keep up his confidence in the process since he was the top English student.

Kinders (preschools) typically offer music, art, some sort of physical education, math and reading. Students are given homework daily in the hopes that it will instill a sense of responsibility in them. It seldom does. There is an almost unholy quest for students to be able to read before they finish kinder. Fortunately, Spanish is a bit less complicated than English in regards to reading (The Easiest Language to Learn) and most children are able to master basic Spanish language reading skills.

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Marching in the kinder parade!

Quite a lot of time is spent on events, Grandparent’s Day, Christmas, Day of the Dead, Children’s Day, Father’s Day, Mother’s Day, Carnival, Independence Day, etc.. Most of these events require the little ones to learn some sort of dance and memorize some poem or song. There are several parade marchings as well. The kids usually ride in floats, but it’s hard on the teachers and parents marching alongside.

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Planting a tree on Father’s Day.

There were some worthwhile activities as well. For Father’s day, dads and kids went to Los Areas Verdes and planted a tree together. For Children’s Day, several parents and teachers took a collection of toys to the remote villages of Los Amoles and Santa Gertrudis, then a clothing donation to La Ciudad de Los Niños (a local orphanage) and another children’s shelter in Uriangato. As the trees were donated, the toys were used, and we volunteered to drive, it really wasn’t much of a sacrifice on the part of the well-to-do parents whose children attended this kinder, but hey, something is better than nothing.

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Kinder graduation

When the 5 and 6-year-olds are ready to leave the kinder, there is a graduation ceremony. At the private school we attended, the boys wore a little tux and girls wore mini-prom gowns to perform a bas (formal dance). They received diplomas and shook hands with the mesa directiva (school board). It seems quite excessive unless you take into consideration the comparable hoopla for first communion ceremonies.

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Saying goodbye to the Kinder.

During this school year, we found a little bit of land to purchase, and my husband began working on our home. My son and I would head to school in the morning, then out to the construction site in the afternoons. Saturdays he and I would make the private English class rounds on the moto. He had his own “English” activity book and was an incredible incentive to students just starting out. It was an exciting, but exhausting, period in our lives with all the planning and building and just getting adjusted to the way things go here in Mexico.

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Christmas in México–Las Fiestas de Enero de Moroleón

Lest you think that the Christmas season was enough partying to last for several weeks, the festivities continue here with Las Fiestas de Enero (January Festivals) in Moroleón that begin on or about January 15 and continues until January 31.

This festival, or rather series of festivals, is in honor of a sacred statue that somewhat accidently found itself in Moroleón more than 200 years ago.

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In 1802, Father Alonso de Velasco was taking the image to the Bethlehem Temple in Guanajuato, but became sick and died before he could deliver the goods.  In gratitude for the care he received in Moroleón, Father Alonso donated the image of Cristo Negro (Black Christ) to the local church as he lay dying. This little black Jésus statue is said to be an exact replica of the statue that is venerated in the town Esquipulas, Guatemala.  The figure is known as El Señor de Esquipulas.

On January 15, 1806, Father Francisco de la Quinta Ana y Aguilar celebrated Misa Solemne en honor del Señor de Esquipulitas (solemn mass in honor of the image) in Moroleón.  This is the same day as it is celebrated in Guatemala.  A jaripeo (rodeo) and other festival events occurred after the mass. For this reason, the main iglesia (church) in the centro of Moroleón is known as El Señor de Esquipulitas, and the festival de Moroleón takes place in January.

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So the fun kicks off with a fabulous mass and an obra de teatro pública (public play downtown).  Then there are bandas (bands) and singers that perform until the wee hours of the morning every night for the next week or so.   I am not sure how the local population can party so hard.  El grupo Garcia (The Garcia group) brings their amusement park rides.  A traveling circus and artesenía vendors also set up.  There are so many ways to spend your money!

We always pass on the bandas.  They never start playing until after dark, and in January it’s still quite cold, so not a pleasant evening.  Of course, there is plenty of drinking, so I expect that keeps the party-goers from feeling the chill so much.  When we passed through the centro in the morning, there were piles of rubbish knee-high and the entire area smelled like one giant vat of beer.  Must have been some party.

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After the festivities in Moroleon.

There are also jaripeos (rodeos) at several Lienzo Charros (rodeo places) on various days during the festivities, but we tend to pass on those as well, pretty much for the same reason.  Most attendees are obnoxiously inebriated and not pleasant to be around.

We do, however, make a concerted effort to get to la feria (the fair) and the circus, even if it means eating beans for the next several weeks.  The last few years, the circus and the fair have set up in the same area and charged only one fee for both—a mere $35 pesos per person.   However, it didn’t work out so cheaply for us last time.

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Bumper cars are always a favorite!

Last year, my sister-in-law T treated us to tickets one night.  She and I had a blast reliving our youth and listening to Bon Jovi rock on!  Must have been quite a sight for the kiddies, watching two 40-something old ladies, screaming bloody Mary as the roller coaster dropped, but we had a nauseatingly good time.  We went on Friday but found that the circus had yet to set up and that there were only a handful of concession and artesenía stands.

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La feria in Moroleon. View from above!

Because of the lack of selection, we ended up eating at a little taco cart which offered 5 tacos for 25 pesos.  Unfortunately, I can say for a fact that my tacos were not bistek.  If I were to hazard a guess, I would say they were made of ground turkey, but they say that there are vendors that sell tacos made from ground dog meat and it’s entirely possible that that is what I ate.  My sister-in-law didn’t have the pseudo-bisteck but ordered chorizo and broke out in hives the next day.  You would think we would have learned…

So, since we couldn’t miss the circus, we went again on Sunday evening.  We paid 35 pesos for the entrance and hurried into the big top.  We had just finished watching the hula hoop girl and the trained llamas when the electricity went out. So much for that show.

We then went to look at the artesenía shops.  There were still quite a few open spaces, but there were some interesting things to see.  Unfortunately, the prices were too high for us to buy much of anything.  I noticed that many of the stalls had a little saint image with a lit candle, I expect to bless sales.  When my sister-in-law purchased a purse at one booth, the worker/owner crossed himself and offered up a prayer.  Seems the economic crisis is affecting everyone these days and when all else fails, turn to God.

After that, we went to the nearly empty food stands and were lured into one that offered 5 tacos for 35 pesos.  Here we experienced the old adage “A fool and his money are soon parted.”  My husband ordered the 5 chorizo tacos for 35 pesos but was served a plate full of tacos de bistek (beef tacos).  He sent it back.  The plate he was then given was so measly that he complained.  The server said that single layer mini-taco and a sprinkling of meat was because it was a special price.  My sister-in-law ordered 3 tacos de bisteck and 2 of chorizo.  She received my husband’s returned order with a sprinkle of chorizo on 2 of the tacos.  I had ordered a gringa made with beef instead of chorizo (apparently called a pirata), and it was huge but not very tasty.  The biggest surprise of all was the bill–$305 pesos.  WHAT??  Well, apparently my order cost $95 pesos, my son and T, each had a plate of $45 pesos, although my husband’s plate really did only cost $35 pesos.  Then we had ordered a can of soda each–$20 pesos each.  Well, as PT Barnum said, “A sucker is born every minute.”  That will teach us to eat concession ever again.

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Gorditas de nata and freshly toasted pumpkin seeds!

We did find a stand that sold toasted pumpkin seeds and gorditas de nata (bread made from the skimmed cream of cow’s milk) and enjoyed those tasty delights.  There was also a stand of pan de Acambaro (bread from Acambaro) which is tasty, but the pink dye used in the bread makes you pee pink for several days.  It’s really quite alarming the first time it happens.

The lines for the rides were 100 people long, weaving under yon and over dale.  Although we wanted to get the full value of our tickets, it wasn’t even tempting to get in the endless snake line.

We were determined to see the circus, so we lined up at 8:15 for the 9:00 show.  Just before we were allowed to go in, some hoity-toity chick line jumped and pulled her charro husband and child with her.  Then the suegra (mother-in-law) tried to squeeze her enormous bulk right in front of us as well.  Suddenly, the quiet, geeky guy that had been standing in front of us the whole time becomes Defender of the Space and shouts them out of line.  So we kept our place in line, but as we approached the doors, a mass of teenagers rushed the gate and pushed their way in front of us.  Talk about mostrando su cultura (demonstrating their culture).  I’m not sure what the big deal was since the big top was A BIG TOP and there were plenty of seats left open when the performance began, but, hey, what do I know.

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The big top in Moroleon.

The circus was great!  I know that cruelty to animals can be an issue with such events, especially in a third-world country, but I always love to see the elephants with their big, baggy skin and wrinkles.  The clowns were funny, the jugglers were amazing, but miniature Shetland pony ridden by a baboon named Peña-Nieto was the best!  During the performance, I kept thinking what a shame it was that there weren’t more public events like those offered during this festival.  In this world of computer, television and movie screens, the emotional interaction between audience and performer has been lost completely.  There may be more quantity to our viewing pleasures, but there certainly is less depth.

Las Fiestas end on January 31 with a paseo (walk) with the statue El Señor de Esquipulitas through the downtown streets of Moroleón.  Many former residents make the peregrino (pilgrimage) to participate in this event, some even descalzo (barefoot) to atone for the sins they committed during the festivities.  Personally, I think it would be better to not commit the sin, thus not need to make atonement, but hey, what do I know?

So, on to the next great festival!

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Christmas in México—Three Kings’ Day

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Los Santos Reyes or Los Reyes Magos bring gifts to children in México.

Three Kings’ Day is celebrated in México on January 6, Epiphany, and is based loosely on the visit of an unknown number of unnamed astrologers who visited the young child Jésus sometime after his birth, bringing gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh as recorded in the book of Matthew.

These visitors are known as Los Santos Reyes (The sainted kings) or Los Reyes Magos (The magic kings) and have been christened with the names Melchor, Gaspar, and Baltazar.  Young children are told to leave out their shoes filled with grass for the camels of Los Reyes Magos and will be given a gift in return.  Slightly older children may write a letter to Los Santos Reyes making a gift request which is tied to the string of a helium balloon and released to go wherever it is that Los Reyes are when they are not making gift deliveries.

January 6 is the last day of an incredibly long school vacation period and it never seems quite right that children have to wait until the very last day to get something new.  Some families have therefore instituted gift exchanges on Christmas day so that there would be presents to enjoy during the vacation period as well.  However, don’t think that Santa delivers to México, since everyone knows his sleigh won’t work without snow—or at least that is what I have been told.

Children in our area of México, seem to believe in the existence of Los Santos Reyes much longer than children in the U.S. believe in Santa Claus.  On several occasions, I have listened to 11 and 12-year-olds passionately debate the topic, with most still firmly believing.  Of course, given the other religious and cultural miraculous beings that belong to the Mexican people, like la Virgen de Guadalupe, it shouldn’t come as any surprise that their children want to believe, so it is so.

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Sharing the Rosca de Reyes on January 6 is a long standing tradition in México.

Gifts are often placed at the foot of the child’s bed to be discovered immediately upon waking.  Sometime later in the morning comes the tradition of the cutting of the Rosca de Reyes (a round or oval shaped fruit cake).  Each partaker must cut his or her own piece of cake.  This is to ensure there are no trampas (cheating) since baked inside the cake are one or more plastic babies representing el niño díos (the baby Jésus).  It is considered a sign of good fortune for the coming year if you find one of these plastic babies in your piece, although it comes with a catch, you must provide the tamales and atole (a corn-based drink) for the family gathering on el Día de la Candalaría.

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Last year, not only did I find one in my piece of the rosca at the family gathering, but I was blessed with a second one at work.  I was feeling pretty good about it initially and waited with open arms for some of the reputed good fortune to be laid upon me.  However, I soon had to revise my opinion when a series of unrelated, unfortunate incidents made January into a most trying month.  I figure that the two lucky charms canceled each other out, so no bestowed good fortune for me. I’d have to make my own.  Additionally, I then had two separate events that I had to provide tamales and atole for, a double expense.  What fun!

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