Buying Sewing Notions in Mexico

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You would think that buying sewing notions would be a no-brainer, but let me tell you, it isn’t.

We live in an area where the main source of revenue is textile. Other areas might not have the same variety that we have here, but I expect will have the same hassle.

IMG_20180725_102142Suppose you want to buy a spool of thread. You can’t just waltz into Parisina (a fabric store) and pick one up. NOOOOO. That would be too easy. First, you have to get the attention of one of the attendants. Then you indicate what spool of thread you wish to purchase (or length of fabric or ribbon). The attendant will take your purchases and write up a purchase order, giving you a copy. Then he or she will take your things to the bagging area. You will take the copy of the purchase order to the cashier hidden somewhere behind the rolls of fabrics who will take your money and give you a different receipt which you will then take to the area where your things have been bagged for pickup. You hand the receipt to the attendant there who will check it against the items in the bag and then and only then will you be able to take possession of your purchase.IMG_20180221_161216.jpg The only difference I’ve seen with smaller fabric stores is the number of the employees. There is still this whole purchase order before payment process, like back in the old days at the dry goods store.

The lengthy fabric shopping experience has put me off buying new material for projects. Instead, I have been slicing and dicing our old clothes into squares which I turn into patchwork pillows or tablecloths, nothing fancy mind you. I just LOVE my treadle sewing machine!

Se hacen moldes de ropa (patterns made)

You can’t just buy a pattern envelope like at Joanne’s fabrics. That would be too easy. You can, however, have a pattern made from a particular clothing item where you see a sign that reads “se hacen moldes de ropa.”

Alterations done at the Sastreria, sometimes while you wait.

You can have your clothes tailored at the sastre (tailor) or the sastería (tailors’ shop). A seamstress is a costurera. If your scissors are dull, you can take them to places that advertise “se aflilan tijeras”. In our town, we also have a scissor sharpener that roams the streets periodically with his pan flute. Places that advertise “se bordan nombres” will embroider your child’s name on his or her school uniforms, which I highly recommend because it will save having to buy a new sweater or jacket every few months when your kid leaves it at school. With an embroidered name you can just waltz in the school office and rummage through the “lost” sweater pile and reclaim in.IMG_20180410_140908.jpgFabric and ribbons and lace are sold by the meter rather than yard, which isn’t a hard conversion. If you need beading, zippers, buttons and such not, you will need to go to a mercería although larger stores like the above mentioned Parisina have a small inventory of these items. At either location, you can buy just one or by weight or count, depending on the item.IMG_20180530_092607If you need parts for your sewing machine, there are parts stores. You might even find a stand at the weekly tianguis (market). Some only carry parts for certain companies, like Singer, Brother, and so on, while others have a little bit of everything. There are also sewing machine repair shops as well, at least in our area. Like I said, 80% of the town work at some sort of clothing manufacturing. We took my treadle sewing machine to one recently. (See Getting some repairs done.)

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Instead of a revolutionary war hero statue, Moroleon has Los Conos–three huge cones of thread–at the entrance to the town.

If you are looking for something that the store doesn’t have, you might be told “Se me acabo” (I just ran out) or “Viene manana” (The shipment comes tomorrow). Most of the time, this isn’t true and you should look for the item in another store rather than wasting your time returning tomorrow when the shipment is “supposedly” coming in. You could leave your phone number and have the store call you when that item does come in though if you are willing to wait.IMG_20180725_101748_1CS.jpgKnitting (tejido de dos agujas or tejido de punto) isn’t very popular here, although most older ladies know how to crochet (tejido de un aguja or de ganchillo). If you need yarn, be aware that it’s pricey and not as easy to find as you might think. There are however, stores, that only sell yarn, so not all hope is lost.  Don’t even try to find organic and natural yarn. Everything is mass produced importation. There are a few stores that sell crocheted baby clothes, which are just adorable.

Embroidery (bordado) is very popular and you should be able to find patterns and embroidery floss at the market. The women who run these stands also sell their finished products like embroidered tortillas servilletas (napkins) and crocheted doilies if you aren’t inclined to make them yourself.

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So, now I hope you are a little more informed when heading out in search of sewing notions in Mexico.

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Failing at your own business–Buy Me A Coffee Crowdfunding

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So you know I like trying out different ways to make a bit of cash. And here’s my latest find. Although I warn you, I can’t imagine how this particular setup will make millions for you.

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Here are the basics.

Buy Me a Coffee is a crowdfunding platform for creators, artists, and writers. I’m a writer now with actual books, so I qualify! Fancy that. In case you didn’t know, you can find my currently available books listed here.

Here’s my Buy Me a Coffee page.

The idea is that instead of buying that overpriced Mocha Cappuccino Caramel Frappe today, you donate $3, $4, or $5 to the creative genius of your choice via Paypal.

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You can also “purchase” exclusive material for the cost of the donation. Right now I have one section of the book I am working on available here.

I’ve set up a low-level goal of $15 just because I never seem to have any luck with crowdfunding efforts. And I’ve added the button to the sidebar on my page and Tumblr.

And that’s pretty much it. I know my current writing endeavors aren’t nearly as important as say the Guatemalan volcano survivor assistance project Genesis is doing here, but nothing ventured nothing gained right?

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Grandparents’ Day in Mexico

Extended family is important in Mexico. Grandparents often live near their grown children if not in the same house and as a result, are part of the daily lives of their grandchildren.

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In our family, my son’s abuelo (grandfather) lives just up the road.  My husband lived with his grandmother, Mama Sofia, for a time as a teenager. We visited Papa Rique and Mama Vira regularly. Mama and Papa are the shortened forms of Mama Grande and Papa Grande which are the terms used in Cerano for grandparents rather than abuelo/abuela.

So it’s no surprise that Mexico has a day to celebrate grandparents. Most Catholic nations celebrate Grandparents’ Day on July 26 because this is the feast day of Joaquin and Ana whose feast day is July 25.  Joachim and Anne were Mary’s parents and therefore Jesus’ grandparents. But not Mexico. According to some sources, under Porfirio Diaz (which incidentally is my husband’s grandfather’s name and my son’s middle name) events and activities to honor the elderly in the community occurred during the celebration of the feast day of Agustin de Hipona on August 28. Another source credits the idea of Grandparents’ Day to Lazaro Cardenas. Apparently, he made mention that there should be a holiday to celebrate grandparents, but I wasn’t able to find any proof that he actually established a day.  A third story says that Edgar Gaytan Monzon, a radio announcer, developed the idea of Grandparents’ Day because he felt that the UN’s International Day of Older Persons excluded those who were grandparents in their 30s, 40s or 50s.  Being a younger grandparent is not uncommon in Mexico. The average age of a woman having her first child is 21.3 years, although in our area it seems the average age is about 18. So if a woman has her first child at 21 and her child has his or her first child at 21, the woman will be a grandmother at 42.  My husband’s sister became a grandmother this month. She’s 40.  The dates don’t make sense for this last one to be true.  International Day of Older Persons was established after Grandparents’ Day.

What’s more likely is that Mexico saw that the US had a day for Grandparents established in 1978 and thought it was a good idea.  Regardless of whose idea it was, since 1983, Grandparents’ Day has been observed on August 28 in Mexico.

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Mama Vira and Papa Rique with some of their great-grandchildren.

It’s customary for grandchildren to make a card or other small craft to give to their grandparents. Sometimes a special meal is prepared.  As with the other family holidays, the most important thing is to spend time together.

 

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