Buying property — as easy as buying a piece of heaven Part 1

Se Vende La Case donde vive Toñita. Inf. aqui. The house where Tonita lives is for sale. You can get information about that house at the house where this sign is posted. No idea where Toñita lives.

Se Vende La Case donde vive Toñita. Inf. aqui. The house where Tonita lives is for sale. You can get information about that house at the house where this sign is posted. No idea where Toñita lives.

When we came to México, it was only a matter of course that we look for a place to call our own. I should mention that until recently, foreigners could not buy land in Mexico at all.  The current president, Pena Nieto, however, is all about changing the constitution and allowing foreign investors in, so those laws have been changed dramatically.  We really didn’t have a major issue with this prohibition, however, since my husband is bona fide Mexican and therefore allowed to own land.

It wasn’t as easy as you might think. In our area, there are no realty offices. There are inmobiliaries, (property sellers) however the majority of property owners here who are looking to sell do not use them because there is a fee. Those that do have an agent through an inmobilario office were out of our price range. So, with no easy to look at list of properties for sale, all the legwork falls on the hopeful buyer.

For us, this process entailed months of exploration. We drove everywhere we thought we might like to live, from Los Amoles to Cerano and back, up side roads and by-roads, through fields and over ditches. If we happened to come across a $ painted either on the front of a house or on a stone wall, we stopped and looked it over.

SEVEN DE should read Se vende and indicates this building is for sale.

SEVEN DE should read Se vende and indicates this building is for sale.

Having located a prospective property, we then set out to locate the person who currently owned it. Asking the neighbors was seldom helpful. Small town distrust placed us at a severe disadvantage. Sometimes the neighbors claimed they didn’t know or just did not want to give us information. Sometimes they would send us to the son or daughter of the current owner, or maybe a cousin or uncle that lived pa’ya (over there). So we would trudge over to try and ask for the supposed responsible party, only to find out it had already been sold, or they had changed their mind about selling.

terreno for sale

Lot for sale with a non-valid contact phone number.

Sometimes there was a telephone number listed and we tried to call. It very seldom was a working number. And even if someone answered, he or she knew nothing about a property for sale.

lot for sale

There is no way to tell if this lot is still for sale or not. How long has this sign been hanging on this post?

We became despondent and took to ending our searches in La Yacata, where my husband’s sister had a lot. We would sit on the sidewalk and build castles in the air. If only this were our lot….

lot in La Yacata

Building castles in the air in La Yacata

After about 6 months of fruitless searching, we stopped at our imaginary home in La Yacata and saw to our delight that two lots across the street had a posted for sale sign. We called the number and met with the owners that very day. After a few days of negotiation, we agreed to buy both lots for a total measurement of 14 x 20 meters for $95,000 pesos. We had cash in hand from the sale of our house in the U.S. and trato hecho (it was a done deal). Within a week, my husband had the machine come to dig the foundation holes and within 3 months, we were living in our own home, unfinished as it was. Our house and animal area have been in a constant state of remodeling ever since. La Yacata also came with its share of problems. (See The Beginning of the Revolution) But how were we to know?

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This sign at the carniceria butchers) says that there is a lot for sale with all of the servicios paid.

It is important for me to caution that it really is “Let the buyer beware” when buying property.  It is in the buyer’s best interest to have the seller give him or her all the receipts (originals not copies) for los servicios pagados (water, sewage, electric, pavement, and sidewalks).  However, as we found out, even having those documents does not guarantee that the utilities in place are in working order or up to code.  Talking to the encargado (person in charge) of a development may or may not be helpful.  After all, he or she is in charge of obtaining these utilities and will assure you until blue in the face that everything is hunky dory.  One way that can eliminate some of the doubt is to buy property that already has escrituras (deed) because that means that all the urbanization required has already been done.  However, it does cost more.

But, in our case, having put down roots regardless of the problems, when the lot next door came up for sale last year, we dreamed of adding just a little bit more to our property. We even made an offer, but since it would have taken 10 months to pay off the lot, and the owner didn’t want to wait and she sold it instead to someone else. This someone else, C, took out a bank loan in order to buy it and then told us he planned on putting in a pig farm. I, for one, was terribly downhearted at the news.

But when month after month came and went and no little piggies came to stay, I thought I had made peace with the loss.  Then again….

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Battle of the Brujas

Talismans, candles, curses, prayers, tarot readings and more available here at the Bruja store!

Talismans, candles, curses, prayers, tarot readings and more available here at the Bruja store!

Tortilla sales had dropped off drastically and my sister-in-law was worried.  If she couldn’t make a go at the tortilla business, what other line of work would she get into?  She fretted a few days, hoping it was only a temporary problem.  But then the menudo (tripe soup) didn’t sell on Sunday, which was unheard of.

She trotted off to see Chencha.  Last time she went, Chencha told her that her sister L had thrown something at the local (store) that affected her sales.  (See Failing at your own business—Tortilleria).  This time, Checha said that the low sales were caused by a fat, unkempt woman.  My sister-in-law identified her as the woman who sells tortillas around the corner.  I expect this woman might have bad feelings for T, since my sister-in-law makes an awesome tortilla de prensa (pressed tortilla) and I would imagine this woman’s sales had dropped off, eliciting the envy that caused the black magic use and subsequent panteon (cemetery) dirt throwing.

So Chencha prescribed a candle and some spray and T went back to work.  Sales continued to be slow the following week.  When clearing up one afternoon, she discovered 5 yellow manchas (spots) that certainly hadn’t been there the day before.  She used a fibra (scouring pad) and agua bendita (holy water) and scrubbed until the dots were gone.

Later she was talking to me about these problems.  She couldn’t understand why someone would have so much envdidia (envy) as to do these things.  She certainly didn’t feel threatened by the tortilla place around the corner, or the one down the street.  In her opinion, each did what he or she could to get by and as long as her tortillas sold, she didn’t care who else sold tortillas in the area.

I told her that most people didn’t think like that, especially here.  It seems if someone gets ahead, those around him or her become jealous.  There is even a common saying here.  If someone gets something new, or is doing well in business, those that remark on the new purchase or success expect the person to dar el remojo (cut).  Remojo literally means to soak or wet.  So those asking for the remojo (soaking) are asking to be showered with the same splash of success as the new owner.  Once upon a time, the remojo was literally something given by the new owner to those around him or her as a way prevent envy of those who did not have a new item, child, spouse, etc.  It isn’t a practiced custom anymore, per se,  but the expression and the intent remains.

So apparently, T hadn’t fulfilled the requirements of the remojo and the ensuring envidia (envy) sparked these problems.  She placed a sábila (aloe vera) plant at the entrance of her local to absorb the mal vibra (bad vibrations) and bravely carried on.

Her persistence paid off and sales again were steady.  She has since hired a worker to help her meet the demand!

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Parenting Challenge—Inspiring Learning

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Some people are incredulous when I tell them that we live without electricity at our home. Whatever do we do all day? These astonished souls comment they would just die without TV. That’s a sad commentary really. There are so many other things to do besides sitting mindlessly in front of the boob tube waiting to be entertained or enriched with essential knowledge that supposedly can only be had by watching the nightly news. I can guarantee that we are never bored. We have animals antics to watch, chores to do, gardens to plant, inventions to create, tables to dust, books to read, building to do and so on. I am not saying television viewing is all bad. There are all sorts of educational programs out there. And we enjoy a good movie or two. We do have the capacity to watch movies despite not having electricity. We have a Portable DVD Player, and it is such a sweet treat for us at the end of the day to curl up and watch a movie together. Because of years of use, the power never lasts for more than one full-length movie, so our viewing time is limited, but who really has time for hours of movies anyway?

 We are more ready to be done unto than to do; we do not care for the labour of ordering our own lives in this direction or in that; they must be conducted for us; a press of engagements must compel us into what next, and what next after. We crave for spectacular entertainment, whether in the way of pageants in the streets, or spectacles on the boards. … There is nothing intentionally vicious in all this; it is simply our effort to escape from the ennui that results from a one-sided view of education,––that education is an atmosphere only.–Charlotte Mason

My family in the U.S. sends us one box chocked full of goodies, things hard to come by where we live, once a year, usually in January. We tear into it with gleeful anticipation. This year was no exception. In fact, I believe they outdid themselves this year. In addition to a Kindle with more than 300 books on it, oh how many hours of pure bliss there, they sent my son some projects. When we laid out the boxes, I told him that regular class would be suspended and he could build one project a day. He was delighted.

There were several Lego sets, a music box kit, and a solar educational kit. He could barely wait to finish breakfast the next morning before he got started. After he put to together the boxed sets according to the instructions and marveled at them a few days, he set about taking them apart and designing his own stuff. He analyzed how much solar power he would need to charge his cell phone and tried tweaking the kit to fit that purpose. It wasn’t strong enough for the task at hand, and he was disappointed, but he kept up with his experiments. No boredom here!

Education is a World Business.––Next, we may have poetry, or art, or philosophy; we cannot tell; but two things are incumbent upon us,––to keep ourselves and our children in touch with the great thoughts by which the world has been educated in the past, and to keep ourselves and them in the right attitude towards the great ideas of the present. It is our temptation to make too personal a matter of education, to lose sight of the fact that education is a world business, that the lessons of the ages have been duly set, and that each age is concerned, not only with its own particular page, but with every preceding page.–Charlotte Mason

I had been trying to get my son interested in reading some of the books on my shelf to expand his understanding of the world. One of the books I wanted him to pick up was about Greek mythology, but he wasn’t interested, and I didn’t want to force the issue. One day, I brought home a movie, Lightning Thief, that I thought he would enjoy. Well, the next morning, he was still going on about the characters and the film. So I casually tossed my mythology book on his bed and said that he might find this book useful in understanding the movie better. He spent the better part of the day devouring the book and then watched the movie again, absolutely delighted with the information he now had. I didn’t feel that we needed to have a “proper” lesson on the subject since my mission had been so easily accomplished.

A Wider Curriculum.––Give children a wide range of subjects, with the end in view of establishing in each case some one or more of the relations I have indicated. Let them learn from first-hand sources of information––really good books, the best going, on the subject they are engaged upon. Let them get at the books themselves, and do not let them be flooded with a warm diluent at the lips of their teacher. The teacher’s business is to indicate, stimulate, direct and constrain to the acquirement of knowledge, but by no means to be the fountain-head and source of all knowledge in his or her own person. The less parents and teachers talk-in and expound their rations of knowledge and thought to the children they are educating, the better for the children. Peptonised food for a healthy stomach does not tend to a vigorous digestion. Children must be allowed to ruminate, must be left alone with their own thoughts. They will ask for help if they want it.–Charlotte Mason

The next movie I am going to recommend to my son is The Patriot and then toss Johnny Tremain on his bed and see what he makes of it. World History includes U.S. History after all.  And this inspiring learning bit, rather than formal lessons is a walk in the park for both of us.  How enjoyable!

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