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Convivio without CFE

A week after the official power inception, the CFE supervisor was back doing some final checks. He asked for, and I handed over the solicitud (application) for the last murete (meter post) that was installed and connected. I asked him if he had a date that he and his supervisors would be available to plan the convivio (community gathering). He said that week he was busy, but perhaps Monday or Tuesday of the following week.

Super Prez got a confirmation for Thursday between 2-3, and preparations began. R. bought a borrega (sheep) and a chiva (goat from my sister-in-law L. and assured us he knew just the person to have them prepared with montalay (which is a vegetable dish in guajillo sauce commonly served with birrira). R. was also in charge of the beer. My other sister-in-law, T., made 12 kilos of tortillas. C. made rice to accompany the meat and montalay. Her son-in-law provided disposable plates, cups, napkins, and utensils. We asked that anyone who was attending bring a family-size bottle of soda. We rented the chairs and tables from another colono. And the best part is I didn’t have to lift a finger to organize it! Anyone who asked what they could do or bring, I referred to C. and let her handle it. 

I posted the date and time in the WhatsApp community group, which started a firestorm. Immediately, the question was how much this would cost and whether they would have to pay if they weren’t attending. I explained that the cost would be divided equally among the lots and would come out of the fees for the second semester. A few colonos said they weren’t paying a peso. Others responded that they would gladly pay their part even though they couldn’t attend. One individual reminded everyone that in the old days, a meal was an appropriate demonstration of gratitude, and it was only fitting that we offered CFE the same for the enormous benefit our community received in having electricity installed, even if only a part of the fracionamiento (neighborhood). 

I tagged Super Prez in the conversation, and eventually he swooped in to smooth ruffled feathers, pointing out that divided among the properties, the cooperacion (contribution) for the convivio would not be more than 20 pesos, and there was really no reason to put up such a fuss. That settled everyone down, and we had approximately 80-90 colonos confirm their attendance.

The day of the convivio arrived. Super Prez confirmed that the CFE delegates were still planning on attending. The tables and chairs were set up on the first road with the hope that there would be some shade. We really need a community palapa for this type of event! Everything came together, and the tortillas, meat, and beer were delivered almost at the same time the rice was ready, which was seriously some sort of miracle. At just about 3 pm, colonos began arriving, and the serving table was set up.

Then Super Prez got a call from the CFE supervisor saying they could not make it. Apparently, his boss had just been fired, and the office was in a major upheaval. Hmmm, we’d have to look more closely at that situation, but not this day.

We went ahead and had our community gathering without them. The food was yummy. I had my husband haul the speaker we bought for the juntas (community meetings) down to the corner and got some tunes playing. The feeling was decidedly pleasant, and I enjoyed myself immensely. 

The sun disappeared behind the house, leaving a chill around 5 pm, and we started winding down. Attendees helped fold the chairs and tables and pick up trash. And that was that.

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Blogs About Mexico Worth Reading – AhoritaYA

Debbie Vorachen from AhoritaYA is today’s featured blogger. 

Love brought me to Mexico! I fell in love with a Mexican man while he was dancing Mexican folklore at a festival in the Netherlands, where I was volunteering as a guide for another dance

group. That happened in 2012… it’s 2024 now, and we are still going strong – we even built a little family, and there are 4 of us now. I moved to Mexico in January 2014 and have lived here ever since.

AhoritaYA is about the cultural differences that you will probably face when moving to Mexico. As for the name, it has to do with the concept of time. Most expats and immigrants who move to Mexico come from countries where time is seen as something punctual, whereas in Mexico, it is seen as fluctual. When someone in Mexico says ‘Ahorita’, it will not be now. ‘Ya’ also means ‘now,’ hence the gathering now now (Ahorita YA).

AhoritaYA focuses on all of Mexico! I blog about Mexican culture and society in general and even wrote a book about this. As an anthropologist, that’s a project that lies close to my heart. I blog because I am a cultural anthropologist and a writer; it’s what I love doing and part of how I make a living.

These three posts reflect the importance of understanding Mexican culture and Spanish when you live here, temporarily or permanently.

3 Most Common Mistakes When Moving To Mexico

9 Mexican Movie Classics to Enhance Your Spanish Skills

Settling into Mexican Life: The Weekly and Monthly Must-Knows

I find it challenging to balance the right amount of information and not be seen as another example of gentrification in Mexico. Some people do not like to read a lot and have a prejudice quite quickly – they then don’t know why I live here and why I blog/wrote a book.

My best experience in Mexico has been integrating into my Mexican family. The worst experiences I’ve had in Mexico have been having to deal with any trámite (paperwork) at all.

For anyone planning on moving to Mexico, don’t just pack your belongings! Prepare for the move mentally, too – indulge in any information you can find about Mexican culture and society and learn (Mexican) Spanish.

I plan on staying in Mexico probably forever, although my dream would be to live 50/50 in

Mexico and the Netherlands.

I have big plans for my blog and wish it to be the number one resource on Mexican culture and society.

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You can also find Debbie’s book, What the Mexpat: About expats, immigrants, and everyone in between, on Amazon.

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FREE Book for Today: La Yacata Revolution: How NOT to Buy a Piece of Heaven in Mexico

Dreaming of a simpler life in Mexico? La Yacata Revolution: How NOT to Buy a Piece of Heaven in Mexico is here to show you the real story behind buying land and building a life in rural Mexico. In this eye-opening and often humorous account, you’ll follow one community’s efforts to establish basic services like water, sewage, and electricity in a place where the rules are… a little different. When frustrations boiled over, they didn’t just wait—they launched the La Yacata Revolution and took matters into their own hands.

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  • A real-life story of community resilience: Meet the residents who rallied together to overcome obstacles and reshape their neighborhood—and maybe a piece of the political system.
  • Humor and hard lessons: With wit and wisdom, the author shares insights into the complexities of living off the grid and the realities of rural life in Mexico.

If you’ve ever dreamed of living abroad or are curious about Mexico’s unique blend of challenges and charms, La Yacata Revolution is a must-read. Download it today and see if you’re ready for the adventure of a lifetime!

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