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A to Blogs About Mexico–Red Shoes are Better than Bacon

Jennifer Rose keeps it real at Red Shoes are Better than Bacon.

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A Chevrolet Suburban and Carretera Federal 57 and a couple of Cadillacs from time to time and sometimes jet planes brought me to Mexico.

Red Shoes are Better than Bacon

All of about 15 seconds went into naming this blog. I like bacon just as much as the next person, but what I really love are red shoes, particularly Ferragamo Vara flats in red with a stacked, not covered, heel. The Red Shoes fairy tale, The Red Shoes film, The Red Shoes ballet, the pope’s red shoes, and Dorothy’s ruby slippers are all about granting the wearer the power to do what she really wants to do, even if the pope isn’t a she.

Red Shoes does not limit herself to any particular area or aspect of Mexico. While there usually is some nexus with Mexico, blog posts may reflect upon the serial comma, Kilgore Trout, or shameless self-promotion.

I write for me. If others find my blog entertaining, enlightening or educational, that’s a cherry on the cake. I’m not paid to promote Mexico, expatriate living, or even Pingüinos. I’d settle for blogging more frequently than I do. Plans? Red Shoes are Better than Bacon will likely remain an eleemosynary institution.

My favorite post’s usually the one I just published, followed by those with the most visitors.

None of the topics I have posted about were difficult to write about, really. I do not blog about heart-rending, gut-wrenching issues. Well, I might if my dog died.

My tenure in Mexico doesn’t have an expiration date. For me, Mexico’s not a hotel where I’ve got a checkout date, or a program I’m expected to graduate from, or even some kind of waystation. It’s not a junior year abroad, and it’s not a retirement haven. It’s where I live, it’s where I am, and it’s where I have my citizenship. And I’ve never lived in any one place as long as I’ve lived right here in Morelia, Michoacan.

My advice for those moving to or traveling in Mexico…. Wait a sec. I’m not turismo, and I’m not the Welcome Wagon. Back before blogs were the rage, I used to get email all the time from strangers wanting to move to Mexico, and I was gullible enough to answer their email. And then those same folks would get their knickers in a twist when I would tire of corresponding with them, when I no longer wanted to be their tour guide, and when I would tell them that if I were truly interested in real estate, I’d be in the real estate business, which I’m not.

Not all Mexico-based bloggers are in the advice and evangelism racket. (We’re not all curmudgeons, either.)

All right, here’s the advice. Do your research, and then don’t believe everything you read. Or hear. Think of a map of Mexico superimposed over a map of Europe, and you’ll see that it extends from Ireland clear over to Bulgaria. That’s a lot of territory. What’s par in Benjamin Hill, Sonora, isn’t par for Tlaxcala.

Don’t give me that crap about “I love the Mexican people.” We’re not all cut from the same mold, we don’t all break into dance at the drop of a hat, we’re not all hard workers, we’re not all honest, and smiling is not the national hobby. No, not any more than all blondes and Swedes are dumb or all Jews are good with money. The Mexican people, just like the people from wherever you’re coming from, are all over the map.

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Blogs about Mexico Worth Reading–Casita Colibrí

Shannon writes at Casita Colibrí, another long-time favorite of mine.

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What brought you to Mexico?

Even though I grew up in California, my first trip to Mexico was in 2007, when I came to Oaxaca to visit a friend. I immediately fell in love with Oaxaca, returned a couple more times, and considered eventually retiring there. The privately funded library where I’d been the director for almost 13 years lost its funding and closed in spring 2009.Full-time jobs for librarian/archivists in the San Francisco Bay Area were almost non-existent. Faced with the choice of working multiple part-time and substitute jobs to barely keep my head above water, versus renting my house and moving to Oaxaca to live a downsized and simplified life, in a culturally rich, full of life city, I opted for the latter.

What was the inspiration behind the name of your blog?

Casita Colibrí is the name I gave my first apartment in Oaxaca – a little rooftop studio surrounded by Tulipan trees. Their brilliant red-orange flowers are a favorite of the hummingbird — colibrí, en español!

What area of Mexico and topics does your blog primarily focus on?

My blog’s tagline is “gringa musings from a rooftop terrace in Oaxaca” and that pretty much sums up my focus. Most, though not all, of the posts center around the State of Oaxaca – people, food, traditions, celebrations, music, art (especially street art), textiles, my garden, and the weather.

Why do you blog?

Oaxaca is an incredibly inspiring place and so I started blogging to satisfy the need for a creative outlet and really didn’t consider that anyone, other than family and friends in the US, would want to read it. To my surprise, others have discovered my blog, found it interesting, and the readership has expanded beyond any expectations. Because of that, and the wonderful feedback I’ve received from readers all over the world whom I’ve never met and several who subsequently I have met, I’ve come to feel a responsibility to make each post as informative as possible and to attempt to improve my very limited photography skills. However, I still to blog about what interests me and hope readers will continue to come along for the ride.

What is your favorite blog post?

Yikes, I really don’t think I have a favorite. If pressed, it would probably say my “About” page, as that was the beginning and provides a glimpse into how it all began.

What has been the most difficult for you to blog about?

I would say, Mexican politics (national, state, and local) has been the most difficult thing to blog about. Firstly, it is spectacularly complex, nuanced, and confounding. As such, it is incredibly hard to comprehend, especially when looking at it through the eyes of a foreigner. Most importantly, Article 33 of the Mexican Constitution forbids foreigners from participating in Mexican politics. As with many things, that prohibition is open to interpretation. However, I don’t want to tempt fate and risk expulsion. Thus, for both reasons, I try to steer clear, though at times it isn’t easy.

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What has been the best experience you’ve had in Mexico?

I would have to say one of my most favorite experiences was when a male friend and I were getting ready to leave after hours spent photographing the Danza de la Pluma (a day-long Zapotec dance re-telling the story of the Conquest) and I noticed that he had a slightly panic-stricken look on his face. To my question, he replied that he couldn’t find his backpack, which he had left under a big tree which was now surrounded by spectators. All eyes had turned to the unfolding drama, as I walked to the other side of the tree, held up his backpack, rolled my eyes, and said, “¡Como mis hijos!” Everyone cracked up – especially the abuelas. It was such a wonderful reminder of our commonality.

What has been the worst experience you’ve had in Mexico?

My worst experience was being summoned to my 89-year-old neighbor’s apartment one night to find that she had been beaten, stabbed and robbed. Thank goodness, she survived, regained her strength, and maintained her indomitable spirit. However, it was a horrifying experience and caused me to question the safety of our apartment complex and the feeling of refuge I had always felt when in my garden and apartment. Of course, I immediately took measures – installing motion sensor lights outside, closing the sliding door to my balcony at night, being hyper aware of my surroundings — even at home, and not being too dismayed about the concertina wire that now surrounds our complex. Lesson learned? This is something that could happen anywhere and perhaps because Oaxaca is so warm and welcoming, I’d become too complacent – I’d forgotten that this is a city with most of the same problems as cities all over the world.

If you are currently in Mexico, how long do you plan on remaining?

As I tell people, when asked, I’m here until I’m not. I have come to feel more “at home” in Oaxaca than I do when I return to the town in the US where I grew up and lived most of my life.

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What advice do you have for those planning to move or travel to Mexico?

Let go of first world expectations and learn to relax, accept the differences, and live in the present. If you don’t speak Spanish, study it and (most importantly) don’t be afraid to use it (you don’t have to be perfect), treat everyone with respect, don’t assume you know best, and enjoy learning something new every day. Additionally, if you are moving to Mexico, develop a support network of other foreigners and/or locals to help you navigate the challenges.

Where do you see your blog going?

Plans are to let the blog evolve in whatever way Oaxaca inspires. It’s difficult to predict, as this is a place filled serendipity. One of the most important lessons I’ve learned since living here is to be open to finding whatever is to be found.

 

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Blogs about Mexico Worth Reading–Notes from Paradise

 

Husband and wife team, Lynda Lock and Lawrie Lock, write Notes from Paradise, also known as Notes from Isla Mujeres.  Lynda has also been featured on Surviving Mexico as an Inspirational Woman Writer in Mexico.

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What was the inspiration for your blog name?

Notes from Paradise, which we recently changed to Notes from Islas Mujeres to reflect the main interest of our readership. The original blog was just random musings sent out in a weekly email to keep our families up to date on our new life in Mexico. We thought then and still do that this is paradise. My husband and I share writing and thinking of topics to write about for our weekly article.

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What brought you to Mexico?

We were close to retirement age, looking for a new adventure. We have always loved the Mexican culture.

What area of Mexico and topics does your blog primarily focus on?

Primarily Isla Mujeres, and other areas of Mexico that we have visited such as nearby Valladolid, Merida, Tulum, the pyramids, cenotes, Mexico City, Guadalajara, and Morelia.

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Why do you blog?

We like to entertain people with humorous stories that include a bit of information about Mexico. We write for readers who are interested in Isla Mujeres or Mexico, the culture of Mexico, traveling in Mexico, locals who live and work on Isla Mujeres, interesting personal stories about long-time islanders, island history, and stories about rescue dogs and cats.

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What is your favorite blog post?  

Our recent post on Friday, May 26th, The little castaway Iza who captured the hearts of thousands. It’s a love story about a caring woman and everything she does for the rescue dogs on the island. It’s a feel-good story with a happy ending.

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What has been the most difficult for you to blog about?  

The five young Island men who went fishing in March of 2016 and never returned home. Writing about pain, loss, and heartache is always difficult, doubly so when you know the families of the people we were writing about.

 

What has been the best experience you’ve had in Mexico?

Learning that family is the most important aspect of the Mexican culture.

What has been the worst experience you’ve had in Mexico?

Getting used to carrying cash again! Not a bad experience, just a different experience. For the last ten years that we lived in Canada, we used a debit card for everything thing. Here we had to relearn the concept of cash, and planning ahead to have enough on hand to get through the week. Bank lineups are long, and many of the ATMs in Mexico are compromised by card scammers operated by South American gangs. In this culture, we need lots of small bills and change.

If you are currently in Mexico, how long do you plan on remaining?

We don’t see any change in the foreseeable future.

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What advice do you have for those planning to move or travel to Mexico?

Come with an open mind and an open heart. As one of my expat friends said the first time we met her, “This is not your country. You are a guest.” You are the foreigner. It is your responsibility to fit in with the local customs, not the other way around.

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Where do you see your blog going?  

Our blog will always be a vehicle to entertain and inform readers. We will continue to chat with more of the old-time islanders, and with their permission write their stories for everyone to enjoy.

Where can you be found?

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